Tuesday, December 28, 2010

Miracle of Clay

I shout a lot obout this item (previously known as Bedak Sejuk Muntah Belut). Simply because it is miraculously AWESOME! It has worked wonders on my skin...and for many others whom I've shared this product with. I've been getting good testimonials all the way. What surprised me even more is that it managed to shrink the stye (ketumbit) I had on my eye. Just by applying Miracle of Clay on my eye lid overnight. Amazing ainnit?

My mentor, Madam Cleopatra (Nik Nafisah Marini Kamil) was the one who brought the product in. She was the one who introduced the beauty of this product, which has been her beauty secret for the past 20 over years. It is no wonder that she looks ageless :)

Recently, Madam Cleopatra did further research about this awesome item. From her research, she penned down an article of her findings. Let me share the article (in which my name was mentioned too :p) here with you.

Miracle of Clay
by Nik Nafisah Marini Kamil

I've renamed the Bedak Sejuk Muntah Belut to Miracle of Clay...simply because people go eeuuuuwww....why would anyone want to plonk eel's vomit on their face? Well then, let me update you on what i've found out....BSMB is actually made of the finest layer of mud you can ever find and it goes through a filteration process using mineral water.So simple right? Read on....



Healing properties of mud, used to treat ailments and cosmetics



Mud has long been known to our ancestors. Great admirers of mud were the ancient Egyptians, in particular, Cleopatra (lol! i've always perasan myself to be cleopatra...i wonder) according to legend, loved to take mud baths. In the vicinity of the Dead Sea, archaeologists discovered an ancient workshop, in which, based on mineral-rich waters, apparently prepared medicinal cosmetic creams and ointments.



I've been a user of this amazingly yucky named remedy since i was 20 years old...yep...23 years ago. It took 3 days to clear my acne. I experimented with some smelly air gamat (then it was difficult to get the processed air gamat)...mixed it with a bit of bedak sejuk muntah belut...plastered it on my face hoping for a miracle....and yes..miraculously...the acne cleared up in less than 3 days....mind you it was only an experiment on my part. So i continued using the bedak until i couldn't find anymore stock until early this year when i stumbled upon a mak cik who sold this at a market. Of course Miss Extreme bought all the stock she could find. And then came the interview with Nona TV3 when they asked what's my beauty secret and all the rigmarole....of course as an afterthought i mentioned this bedak sejuk....and the rest is history i'd say because i've been bombarded with calls smses emails...you name it...from people wanting to try BSMB. So i sold off my own stock at first...and then i decided to make it into my business. :) A lucrative one i must say...and i've helped a few ladies earn some extra income along the way....my wonderful agents...i've got about 30 of them.Will update the list soon.



From the testimonials of Miracle of Clay users which some of u may have read it has cured a lady of her sinus problem...and the latest one ..my agent Razlin Razlan who put some on her sty (ketumbit mata) said that it actually shrank the sty. Amazing right?



Here's what Miracle of Clay can do for you....



Cools down your body (fever, chicken pox, rashes)

Menyejukkan Kulit atau Badan ketika Demam, Bertih dan campak



Whitens and brightens your skin

Memutihkan dan mencerahkan Kulit Muka



Moistens skin (use with air gamat)

Melembapkan kulit



Gets rid of pimples and pigmentation

Menghilangkan jerawat dan jeragat



No more oily skin

Mengeringkan kulit berminyak



Shrinks open pores

mengecilkan liang roma



Firms up skin

menegangkan kulit



menanggalkan daki all over your body...especially the in betweens...:p (what is daki in english?)



gets rid of smelly armpits

Menghilangkan bau ketiak



Can be used as a body scrub

Mandian lulur



can be used for samak



even to mandi jenazah as well....



And importantly....it is suitable for all types of skin male and female...all ages.



ONLY RM5 FOR A PACKET OF 2 ROUND TABLETS

You can use your own air gamat, toner or rose water or plain water with it. I really think that ladies who read this should give Miracle of Clay a try. After all, its super duper cheap! :)







p/s AND YES IT MAKES A DIFFERENCE DOESN'T IT WHEN STRANGERS COME UP TO YOU AND COMPLIMENT YOU ON THE WAY YOU LOOK....:))

Wednesday, December 22, 2010

Why Marriage Is Important To The Society

Assalamualaikum everyone.

My last post was about a month ago, when I got to know that my love is leaving me for somebody who seems better for him. Owh well, I'm still not over him. I know it for a fact that he still has feelings for me...because lately he has always attempted to spare time to spend with me. But I've always been giving excuses for it not to happen. Because I know myself. I know I'm not strong enough to face him now.

But somehow I gave in. He called on Tuesday to ask me out for lunch. I didn't have the appetite to eat...so he just came by to my office and sat in front of me the whole time. And true enuf, as soon as I looked into his eyes...I broke down and cried. Owh help me God! Give me strength...I need to move on!

Just a few hours after he left my office, I received a call from his mom. As soon as I heard her voice...I began to cry. Yes, that's how weak I am. Its because, I not only love him...but his WHOLE FAMILY! His mom mentioned that she misses me so much. Owh, God knows how I miss u...all of u! She told me not to 'putuskan silaturrahim'. And that she loves me like a part of her family. Now tell me people, how am I supposed to respond to that. Its heart-wrenching...seriously! And she invited me to attend the wedding. I declined the invitation, but she told me to attend for her sake if not for the bridal couple. I need strength. I need to be strong and not break down on that particular day.

She told me the same thing...that prolly her son is not the best that Allah has planned for me. Or perhaps I'm not good enuf for him?...I don't know...but we're just not meant to be together as a nuclear family. I need to REDHA and open up for better opportunities.

Honestly, I was already giving up on relationships. But what made me change my mind to be more positive is the thought of my son. I shouldn't be selfish. That boy needs a father...because FAMILY literallyderives from Father And Mother ILove You. I think that's ironically cute :D.

I came across a very good article about marriage recently, and I'd like to share it with all of you.


Why Is Marriage Important To Society?

Marriage has been a permanent fixture in Western society for millennia. While the institution of marriage has changed throughout the years, still it is a constant presence in our world. Marriage has been important to society for a variety of reasons.

Many people believe that the so-called “nuclear family,” consisting of a father, a mother, and children, are the basic building blocks of society. It is in the family that children learn to become citizens; it is in the family that children learn about relationships; it is in the family that children learn about what is expected of them in society, how to act and how to be. Central to the nuclear family is the traditional idea of marriage, consisting of one man and one woman in a monogamous and permanent relationship.

No one in the modern age would suggest that a single-parent family is not a family. With a large number of people growing up in single-parent households, it would not be right, fair, or proper to suggest that a one-parent family cannot function and achieve the same things that a two-parent family can. However, studies do suggest that children who are raised with both a mother and a father do have certain circumstantial advantages over children raised in one-parent households.

In earlier times, marriage helped to stabilize the economics of a rural agricultural society. By having one man and one woman together with their children, a regular workforce for the farm was grown at home. In industrial society, this emphasis changed from children who contribute to the family economy to a view in which the family serves as the training ground and shelter for children, preparing them for life in the adult world.

In the modern world, marriage is no longer a situation of bondage or slavery for women, as it was in medieval times. Both men and women benefit financially as well as emotionally and spiritually from the arrangement of marriage. Some studies even suggest a link between better health and marriage. In addition, marriage is an important institution to many religions who, even though marriage is licensed by the state, nevertheless sanction marriages and perform marriage ceremonies.


Having read all of the above, I'd like to seek for your kindness to include me and my wish of a happy ending in your prayers. I would very much appreciate it. Thank you and have a good and blessed 2011. 2010 has been a horrible emotional roller coaster ride for me. I am so praying and looking forward for a blessed and joyful new year.

Wassalam.

Monday, November 15, 2010

So long My LOVE!

It has been a while. The relationship has been on and off...on and off. I can fool myself & deny all I want...but the fact is, I'm so afraid to lose him.

He has been such a pain. He has been an asshole. Everyone tells me that. In fact, I myself know that for a fact. I realised. But I've failed to counter this feeling of love I have for this man. I've suffered a lot throughout this relationship. A whole suffering journey that has been going on for 31 months, that is 2 years and 7 months. Surprisingly, I still love him right till today. Call me crazy, yes you can. Love makes us do the stupidest thing.

If u ask me to reason out why I love this man so much when all he does is hurt me, I absofreakingly have no idea. All I know is that I love him very much.

This thing has to end. He just told me last nite via SMS that he'll be getting engaged this Sunday (21Nov), and will be getting married in February. No balls! No courage to say it out to me up front, that he had to send a text message. That hurt me even more!

I felt like the whole world collapsed last nite. And I've nowhere to go. I've lost everything. He's my everything! Even my son was upset when I told him about it this morning We both love this man VERY VERY MUCH! We dreamt our forever with this man of mine. My son has always wished that this man will be his dad one day. Fantasy...not reality. It time to wake up and move on. Help us ALLAH!

I've had enuf heartache, I do not know how else to describe how I feel now. I do not only love him, but his WHOLE FAMILY. I'm VERY close to his sister & mom. We communicate with each other very often. All these have to end too. I can't bear hurting myself more, only for the sake of silaturrahim. I might as well end everything.

I told him off yesterday in one of my replies to his text message...to stop contacting me completely. He was sort of begging me, saying that he does not want to lose this precious friendship he has had with me. Honestly, I do not want to lose it too. But help me ALLAH! I'm begging you to give me strength...how else am I suppose to control myself if communication with him does not end??? I love him too much to let him go, but I guess he does not love me that much. Too bad so sad. I'm just a loser.

In his last text message to me last nite, he begged that I forgive him, pray for his happiness and please attend his wedding function. Ya Allah, I want to fulfill his wish...please give me strength!

To you my love, I wish you everlasting happiness without me. I will always love you!

Eid is tomorrow. I've lost my mood for any celebration. My parents are performing their Hajj. I've lost a part of me - my love. There's nothing to look forward to. Anyway, salam Eid-ul-Adha everyone!

Sunday, October 31, 2010

Di mana kan ku cari ganti serupa dengan mu?

ASSALAMUALAIKUM!

There u go...my salam to all of u...extended in CAPS. It has been AAAAAAGES since I last blogged. There was nothing major which was holding me back. I was just plain LAAAAAZY!

Anyway, I'm sure many of you watched the awesome documentary about the late Tan Sri P. Ramlee (shown on History Channel CH555). My heart broke towards the end of the documentary. Such a talented superstar he was, but he died as a poor man (rich in talent). Sad...seriously it was! His creativity in singing, acting, directing...all only being appreciated years after his death.

I can go on and on venting about this, but it will only make my manic Monday worst. All I have to say to conclude it all is - DI MANA KAN KU CARI GANTI SERUPA DENGAN MU?

How about enjoying and appreciating his good music for now..lets get on into the mood.

A few days ago, a few young indie performers collaborated to present an INTERPOLASI (a new Malay word I learned) - which simply means lagu lama yang diberi nafas baru. The show was a lot of crap honestly, especially those which were presented the rock kapak way. Sifu M.Nasir's rendition was a total let down.

Owh well, I'm not here to go on giving bad comments. I'm just gonna highlight the good ones. My Aizat Amdan was a darling superb star that nite. Vince surprised me when initially I thought to myself "Cina Mat Salleh nie, dah la tak pandai SANGAT cakap Melayu...nak nyanyi lagu P.Ramlee pulak?"...he was not bad at all!

The icing oN the cake for me that night has got to be me idol - Yuna. Her rendition of P.Ramlee's Gelora Jiwa was Oooo La La...AWESOME! Antique, the modern way.

Enuf said...let's enjoy some good P.Ramlee music presented by the younger generation.


DI MANA KAN KU CARI GANTI by Aizat, Vince, Atilia, Dayang Nurfaizah, Stacy, Bunkface, Ning Baizura, KRU, Shahir, Azlan & The Typewriter, Ella & Jaclyn Victor




JOGET MALAYSIA by Jacklyn Victor, Aizat & Vince




TAMAN PUSPAWARNA by Aizat Amdan




the icing on the cake...

GELORA JIWA by Yuna (my current favourite song)






P.Ramlee is INDEED a LEGEND...




Before I end this note, let us all offer a moment of silent for the LEGEND, Allahyarham Teuku Ramlee bin Teuku Puteh. Semoga rohnya dicucuri rahmat. Amin. Al Fatihah.

Monday, March 1, 2010

beep beep...we'll be back!

Assalamualaikum,

Heyya! How is everyone doing? How has twenty ten been so far? SRJ Collection has been quiet for a while...for a simple reason that there were not many new items to feature. But, SRJ Collection will definitely be back in action SOON...very very soon!

Just to give u ladies a heads up, I will feature something new in the next collection. After watching Yuna perform at Actors Studio last weekend (yes, I'm a sucker for indie musicians...hehe), I just thot of bringing in some long 'selendangs' for ladies who fancy wearing tudung lilit-lilit like our super talented Miss Yuna.

I'm so excited to transform myself to be Yuna-like :) I'm sure many of you ladies out there are excited too. So, TUNGGUUUUUU!

Monday, November 9, 2009

jiwa kacau

No. Not anything like Pulut Kacau. I am not referring to any sort of food. I don't even have the slightest craving for food at this moment.

I'm still not over it! What is it about him??? Its been 8 months since he called it off...but I am still not over him!

I went off mode for a while, ignoring his calls...ignoring his text messages. After some time when I thought I was ok and that I could already accept the fact that he's not mine anymore, we started communicating again. We started going out for movies, shopping and spending time with each other again (of course with his own 'agendas' on the sides). I would definitely not miss any chance to be with him. The 'happy me' was back :)

However, what was initially based on 'lets be good frens' started to crash me up again. I then realised that I'm still not able to accept the fact. The silly me gets so upset when he's busy with his phone while we're watching movies. The silly me tears like pouring rain when he talks of his plans. The silly me would feel as though there's a dagger stomping on my heart when I hear of names of ladies. The silly me gets crashed when he mentions about his fiance, wedding and sorts.

Move on silly woman! He's moving on...you need to move on too! How I wish my heart would listen to that instead of hoping for nothingness. He was with me a while ago. I was really feeling down. I feel like I'm losing him again. "Cheer up baby girl", he teased me. "My ex-wife just got married and I was ok...I did not cry". Bloody hell! Thats your ex-wife. I am not your ex-wife! And, you and me...we're different! You're a hearless asshole and I'm not! I just can't stop loving you!



How do I get rid of something I do not want to lose? Seriously, there is absobloodylutely nothing good about him...but why do I love him so bloody much?

Jiwaku sungguh kacau... :(

Sunday, September 6, 2009

my prayers answered

Alhamdulillah.

Rezqi comes from the Divine. We, as His servant must ALWAYS have faith in him.

Hmmm...I've been moaning, sighing and wat nots...for being jobless and penniless. I've been selling this and that to make ends meet. But still the ends just didn't seem to meet. Frustration hits me all the time. Depression is what I've been living with for the past few months.

Nevertheless, as good friends usually tell me...never stop praying. Talk to HIM and HE will listen. And that was exactly what I did...with a little breakdowns and giving ups once in a while.

29th August, while sitting in front of this dumping box (my notebook that is)...trying to get myself started with script writing, I was questioned about how my sales and other sources of income are getting along in preparation for Syawal. I just told her - NIL. Yes, thats how pathetic it is - NIL! I asked her if she knows of any income generating opportunity. Alhamdulillah, I just happened to ask the right person.

So, ALHAMDULILLAH...I am now the Manager of the Observation Deck of Menara Kuala Lumpur. So ladies and gentlemen...do pay a visit to the Observation Deck. You'll be surprised to learn about the surrounding areas which you never knew.